Are you aware that recreational dating – how Westernized Christians currently conduct themselves in exclusive, non-marital relationships – is a relatively new phenomenon. Would you be surprised to discover that the Bible teaches a different, better way to find a spouse? Consider courtship a viable, more-biblical alternative to dating as you know it. Watch Paul Washer explain below.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Odyp3sNiIKo&t=4s
You can also watch Session 2 here, Session 3 here, Session 4 here and Session 5 here.